Riley. Riley. And did I mention Riley? Because I’m pretty sure it’s Riley.
Why so hesitant, you ask.
Well, because I just don’t like Riley. He was supposed to be the normal guy for Buffy, but he turned out to be Mr. Initiative. And when he finally realized Buffy had commitment issues, he tried giving her an ultimatum. But that was AFTER he got all friendly with a couple of vamps letting them suck his blood for money.
He wasn’t all that accepting when Joyce was sick. Sure, he said he wanted to be there for Buffy, and he freaked when she wouldn’t let him in. It’s like he didn’t understand her Slayerhood.
And then he came back married and throwing it in Buffy’s face… sort of.
Also, he was dry.